Why Doesn’t He Have Time for Me?

Why Doesn't He Have Time for Me?

Why doesn’t he have time for me? Our clients seem to ask this question more times than we can count. All of them seem to be looking for an answer that they won’t have to take personally.   It seems they want a reasonable excuse why he (or she) doesn’t have…

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Relationship Instability: Take Action to Make it Stable Again

Relationship Instability: Take Action to Make it Stable Again

Relationship instability is a problem many couples suffer from. Relationship instability, if not addressed, can lead to the ultimate devastation of a relationship. When a relationship is very unstable, it breeds insecurity, dysfunctional behavior, and tons and tons of drama. If you are in an unstable relationship, you are not really…

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Angry Couples in Relationships

Angry Couples in Relationships

Angry couples in relationships are at a seriously dangerous crossroads. If the couple does not find a way to become less angry at one another the relationship will only get more toxic. Too many couples, when they know one or both parties are very angry, either do nothing to help…

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Self Entitlement Sabotaging Your Relationship?

Self Entitlement Sabotaging Your Relationship?

Self entitlement has a way of sabotaging relationships. We should all feel entitled to love, and for someone to love us. Self entitlement often sets the stage for the ultimate destruction of the relationship. If only one partner’s needs and desires are important, the other eventually gets tired of it…

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Allowing Bad Behavior in Relationships

Bad Behavior in Relationships

Do you allow bad behavior in your relationship? Have you felt you must tolerate bad behavior in your relationship out of fear? Have you been afraid to call someone out on their bad behavior because they might break up with you? Would you rather just suck it up than speak up…

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Waiting for Things to Get Better?

Do you find yourself waiting for things to get better? What makes so many people believe that the act of waiting will make things better in their relationships? The passage of time clearly has shown them that things got worse, not better. So why are they continuing to hope,pray, and wait for…

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Being the Bigger Person – Are You the Only Adult in Your Relationship?

Being the bigger person in a relationship can make you the only adult in your relationship. When you are always trying to keep the peace, you may be enabling childish behavior to exist in your relationship. A healthy adult relationship requires TWO adults, not just one. When childish behavior causes your…

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Relationship Limbo: How To Get Out Of Relationship Limbo

When your relationship is stuck in limbo, it rarely gets better on its own. Quite often, to get out of relationship limbo requires a big push or major changes. What exactly is relationship limbo? Relationship limbo is when your relationship is either in a state of stagnation, not really moving…

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Are You In The Friend Zone- Can You Get Out of The Friend Zone?

What do you do if you find yourself in the friend zone but you want more? You may desperately want out of the friend zone, but can you get out? When placed in the friend zone, are you permanently stuck there? Is there any way to escape the dreaded friend…

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Playing the Blame Game- No One Wins The Blame Game So Why Play?

The blame game is played for different reasons, and in different ways. Do you play the blame game with yourself? Is the blame game being played out in your relationships? Since no one really wins the blame game, it is about time we quit playing.  Let’s first look at why…

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