How does he feel about me? What are his feelings for me? What does he think about me? Why won’t he tell me how he feels about me? These are the questions almost everyone asks us, but they are every psychic’s nightmare. There are a few problems these questions present, and the first one is VAGUENESS. When you have feelings for someone, you almost always have EVERY feeling for them. You have felt love, anger, frustration, jealousy and even depression at some point in almost every relationship. Well so does he.
So how can that question be properly answered? It really can’t. If you want to know if he loves you, a simple yes or no should suffice, but clients need to realize that because someone loves you does not mean you will be together or stay together. Sometimes love is not enough.
The problem with the question “What does he think about me?” is similar. How many thoughts have you had about this person? Were they all the same? No. Were their thousands of them over the course of time? Yes. Were some thoughts of anger because of a fight and don’t mean anything? Yes, so this question is beyond vague.
When someone asks “How does he feel about me?” or “What does he think about me?” they don’t understand we get information that will answer the question but is probably not in the way you want. For instance, a client asked what does he think about me right now? The answer specifically to that question was that she was a good cook. That was what he was thinking about her today. Did the client like that answer? No! She wanted to know what he thinks about where their relationship is headed. Well, why didn’t she ask that question?
Could it be that clients assume that the things they think about regarding the one they love and the questions they ask themselves about the one they love are the same for all human beings, including the one they love? Well, all people are different. Just because you have been going crazy wondering where your relationship is headed does not mean your significant other does. And, just because he has not been wondering where your relationship is headed does not mean he doesn’t care about the relationship or you.
As for how he feels about you, shouldn’t you look deeper into why you are questioning his feelings or why you are unaware of his feelings? You may think he is not showing his feelings for you enough. It could be that he is showing you he cares for you, but not in the way you want. People’s moods often change, and if someone is having a stressful day at work and had a fight with their boss they are not going to necessarily be thinking thoughts of love for you that day. They may not even think of you that day. Does that mean he does not care or think much of you? Not necessarily.
A woman could have a fight with her boyfriend and obsess about it the next day and ask “What does he think about the fight we had last night?”. Guess what? He could be the kind of guy that chooses not to think about the fight because he needs to calm down, doesn’t want to deal with it at the moment, or can’t. Does that mean he doesn’t care you had a fight? No. Does it mean it doesn’t bother him? No, this is just how he handles it.
Just because he does not think as much as you do, express as much as you do, or handle emotions the way you do does not mean he is in the wrong. He is different than you, just like every other human being on the planet. If you do not think he expresses his feelings for you enough, thinks about you enough and does not handle the problems and issues in the relationship, then you should be asking if things will remain the same, or change! If this is how he is and change is not possible, you have to accept him as is. If you can’t, then it is time you accept he is not right for you and never will be.
The simple fact that you do not know his feelings indicates a greater problem in your relationship. Finding out his feelings through a psychic reading does not fix that problem, nor will it make it go away. Clients need to realize that sometimes the answer to “When will he tell me how he really feels about me?” is never. Not everyone is going to find out everyone’s true feelings for them. Life is really not like the Lifetime Movie Network. Not everyone who loves you is going to show it and not everyone who loves you will treat you well. This is simply a fact of life… C’est la vie!
Love brings out the best and worst in people. There are times when things will definitely be worse, but that does not mean the love is no longer there. If this love is only bringing out the worst in you, him, or both of you, then something needs to change or the love will end. So simply knowing someone loves you does not ensure those feelings will last or that a relationship will develop.
When you ask a psychic about his feelings, or what he is thinking, take the vagueness out of the question. The “how does he feel about me?” question might just provide some very weird answers. Some better questions would be..
- How does he feel about a future for us?
- Does he feel love for me?
- Does he feel I am the one for him?
- Have his feelings of love for me grown stronger and will they continue to grow stronger in the future?
- Has our fight changed his feelings for me or done long-term damage?
Those are the right questions to ask to get specific answers. It is up to you to supply the questions to get a clearer answer. Picture a field of grass. Each blade of grass is a feeling or a thought he has. You expect us to pick which blade of grass out of the whole field that will tell you the answer you need without giving us the right question? Sure, we can pick through blade by blade but you are the one paying for the time it takes. We do not choose the information we receive but are guided by the questions we are asked. When you ask straight-forward questions, you will get the best possible reading as well as a greater number of details.