Is this your soulmate’s last chance? Has your soulmate tested your last nerve to the point where this is it for you? Has your soulmate driven you so crazy that you just feel as though living without them could be easier than living with them?
Soulmates go through some crazy ups and downs. Life with a soulmate can be like riding a roller coaster with many twists and turns. The highs of soul mate relationships are very high, and the ride is exciting. The lows of soulmate relationships can go so low that the ride can be very unpleasant. If your soulmate relationship has more low periods than high ones, you may be ready to get off the ride entirely if things don’t change this time.
You heard their excuses before. You heard one too many promises they wouldn’t do or say that ever again., only to do it again and again. You want to believe they will change. You want to believe them when they say they are sorry. You want to believe they truly love you and don’t want to lose you. The problem is you have reached the place where you don’t believe it anymore. They broke one too many promises and hurt you too many times that although you want to believe things can work out, but you just cannot seem to do it.
You decide this is your soulmate’s last chance to make good on their promises and do what they should have done all along. You have come to the conclusion that they are never going to change, no matter how bad you want them to. This realization is a bitter pill to swallow but it is good that you got to this place. Why? Because now you may be finally ready to do what you may have needed to do all along.
Since you feel you have nothing else to lose, you probably have lost your fear of losing your soulmate because you think you already will. Losing this fear can be a good thing. You may have not taken a stand on major issues in your relationship because of this fear. Fear may have cause you to not give appropriate consequences to your soulmate’s actions. Fear may have prevented you from being the one to end the relationship temporarily.
Your fears may have given your soulmate the power to ruin things between you. Now that your fear is gone, it can bring you a lot of strength and power. When you are serious that this is your soulmate’s last chance, you will be willing to show them that. They will feel, at some point, that things with you have changed. Although the past has shown them they can get away with almost anything, they will learn soon enough they cannot.
Your soulmate may not realize that this is their last chance right away. But if you really want to make this last chance the best chance you have at salvaging this relationship, then give it a chance. The way to do that is to do things differently this time. If you always were the one to initiate contact then don’t do that this time around. If you were the one changing your schedule to accommodate theirs, then make them do it. If you expressed your feelings for them but they did not reciprocate, stop expressing your feelings. If this is your soulmate’s last chance, really give them the chance to make it work. You have to stop doing all the work and let them step up to the plate this time.