Being the Bigger Person – Are You the Only Adult in Your Relationship?

Being the bigger person in a relationship can make you the only adult in your relationship. When you are always trying to keep the peace, you may be enabling childish behavior to exist in your relationship. A healthy adult relationship requires TWO adults, not just one. When childish behavior causes your relationship to deteriorate, you may find yourself resorting to childish behavior yourself. This is the wrong thing to do. It is bad enough when an adult relationship has one person acting like a child. When both parties act like children, the drama and chaos take over.  Problems are not handled, they are fight about over and over. Rather than finding solutions to problems, childish behavior only creates more problems.  An adult can try and be reasonable and can be reasoned with. A child often throws temper tantrums when they do not get their way. How can an adult relationship flourish if both parties won’t act and behave like an adult? Simply put, it cannot.

You may think you are doing the right thing when you are forced to deal with a romantic partner and their childish ways. Instead, you not only enable the childish behavior to continue, but you allow the habit to form. When a person learns they get what they want, even through negative means, the lesson is taught. They then go with what works for them, and the more it works, the more they will resort to childish behavior and ways. The longer any habit continues, the longer and harder it is to fully break that habit. So why would a grown adult choose to behave like a child? Same reason a child acts out – because it gets them what they want. If you don’t give them what they want, only then will they consider changing their ways.

If your adult relationship has begun to feel like you are the parent and they are the child, or that the both of you are acting like schoolkids, it is time to grow up. It is time to break those bad habits once and for all. We are not always perfect, and once in a while we may act babyish, and as long as it is rare, it is only human. But if it is constant and continual, it is time to create positive change. If one or both of you does not grow up, your relationship won’t grow either. If you are having problems in a relationship because of childish behavior, why not get a psychic relationship reading? If you need to be called out for childish behavior of your own, you will be. If you want a healthy adult relationship, allow our psychic guidance and no nonsense answers help you break the bad habits and create positive change today.

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