Soul mates seem to be all about extremes. The range of emotions between soul mates often resembles a roller coaster. Up, then down, up then down. Not a whole lot of middle ground. There is a choice set before all soul mates. Learn the lessons the universe requires and make the necessary changes or do nothing. If they do what needs to be done, they can have it all. If they don’t, they tend to lose it all. And we are not just talking about the relationship either. Many soul mates that have turned their back on the connection and resisted change have wound up experiencing profound problems in other areas of their life.
People who have turned their backs on a soul mate seem to encounter difficulties with their career, family or job, not just romance. They may lose a job, get ill, encounter family drama or even lose friends. Since they did not respect the gift the universe gave them, they must reap the karma. Since they did not make the necessary changes, things changed for the worse for them.
When a soul mate rejects the connection, they may be in for a rough road ahead. They may attempt to get into other relationships but they never measure up. Once someone experiences the deep levels of emotion and chemistry a soul mate relationship provides it is hard to settle for less. On top of all that, if they wouldn’t change or grow for their soul mate, in most cases they won’t change for anyone else. The relationships they attempt with other people will either be on a more superficial level or settling to a degree. They may purposely choose someone they know cares more about the relationship than they ever could. Although these relationships may seem safer to them, they are not usually satisfactory. How could they be?
Soul mate relationship are really all or nothing relationships. They have no middle ground. They cannot be casual acquaintances or keep their relationship at a casual level. Since the feelings are too serious, and growing each day, it is impossible. If one of the soul mates has issues with the connection they may go under the pretense of just wanting something casual. They are kidding themselves. Not going to happen. There is simply too much between them to slap the casual label onto it. Their partner may wonder how they are taking their relationship so casually, when in reality they are not. It is all smoke and mirrors. No soul mate could call what is between them casual or they would be lying.
It is up to each soul mate couple, through their actions, words and behaviors to decide what their outcome is. They can accept the gift they have been given and do the right thing. They can create a new life path for themselves and better themselves. They will have a loving, strong relationship with a partner who supports them through their life journey. They really can have it all. The changes required are not just to make their relationship work. The changes and lessons are to make them better people. And as better people they will live happier and more full filled lives. They can also choose not to accept the challenge before them. Instead they can decide to stay on the wrong path. They can run from their soul mate and continue on a downward spiral. Since they did not become better people and change for the better, their lives will be affected negatively. With soul mates it really is all or nothing.