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Is My Husband Cheating on Me?

  • Posted on September 26, 2016 at 4:42 pm
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Many wives have asked us “Is my husband cheating on me?” Often a husband will think they are playing it cool and that their wives will never suspect them, much less catch them, when they have affairs. They think no one would catch on, but to the wives that have…

When You Love Someone Who is not Single

  • Posted on August 17, 2015 at 5:00 pm

You have been single for a while and have been waiting to meet the right person. Recently you met someone who you feel may be the one for you. You feel different about them than anyone else you have met before. Everything seems so easy and natural between you. The awkwardness was not there, it actually felt like you have known one another for years and years. The attraction seems pretty strong on both sides. You can feel something is different and significant about this one. So what’s the problem? The problem is, they aren’t single.

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When You Love Someone Who is not Single

So now what? Do you walk away from the most amazing person you have ever met? Do you leave them behind and hope you will meet someone who makes you feel the way they do? Or, do you hang in there, not knowing if or when they may be single? No one really wants to start off an affair that will go no where. No one really wants to invest their time and energy into a relationship that won’t evolve. No one wants to emotionally invest in someone and in a relationship that will be shared with a third-party. But yet, many people are willing to take the risk and put their time, energy and heart on the line. They hope the one they love will eventually see that they are right for them, and that their current relationship is not. They hope that the more time they spend together, the easier it will be for them to see they belong together. They believe that the happier they make the one they love the harder it will be for them to remain in their other relationship.

They want to hang on to the belief that the longer they hang in there, the greater the chance they will get what they want in the end.

In some cases, they are right. In many cases it can be a wake up call to help people get out of loveless relationships. Their relationship has run its course and a new person has helped them see that. But that doesn’t happen all the time. In fact, that doesn’t happen a lot of the time. Many people have found the one they love at the wrong time. They didn’t wait for them to become single, and started a relationship too soon.

That relationship actually had the opposite effect. It allowed and enabled the one they love to stay in their current relationship. What was lacking in that relationship doesn’t matter anymore, because they are getting everything from their new one. They do not have to end their old relationship, they are getting what they need from their new one. They do not feel a sense of urgency because they are not missing out or longing for anything. Their new relationship actually makes them complacent. So what do you do now? Did you make a mistake entering into a relationship while the one you love is not single?

In some cases, the one you love may never intend to leave their marriage. It could be for religious reasons, financial reasons, family reasons, or career reasons. They were not getting their needs met within their primary relationship so they got a little help outside of it. And that is all they want. If you are in love with someone who feels that way, you may be out of luck. They truly may never ever leave. There are also people who believed they would never leave their relationship but change their mind along the way. Which situation have you found yourself in and what should you do about it?

We can help you find a solution to your problem. Keep in mind the solution may be to let go of the one you love because they will never be single. You may have to decide that being the other woman or other man is enough for you. But before you waste any more time on false hope, you need to face the truth of your situation, and we will give you just that.

Worst Case Scenarios in Relationships

  • Posted on September 3, 2014 at 8:43 pm

What is the worst case scenarios in relationships? Some worst case scenarios in relationships can include cheating, lying, or leaving to be with someone else. The problem with focusing only on the worst case scenarios in relationships is that such a negative viewpoint can affect the relationship in a negative way. Let’s say your worst case scenarios in relationships would be someone cheating on you. this could make you paranoid, insecure, and give you trust issues. The person you are with could be the most trustworthy person on earth that would never cheat on you in a million years. Because your worst case scenario in relationships is cheating, you may never be able to really trust them. You may constantly question their every more, or even feel the need to read their emails, text messages, or check their phone without their permission. This can make the person you love very very angry. They feel that because they have given you no reason to not to trust them, you have no right invading their privacy. You, on the other hand, have let your worst case scenarios get in the way of reality. Your worst case scenarios are in your head, not necessarily in your life. If you make these worst case scenarios a part of your life, they will affect your life big time. And since they are negative, most likely the affect will be negative as well. Not a really good idea if you want to keep your relationship running smooth.

 

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Worst Case Scenarios in Relationships

When couples fight, one or both may let their worst case scenarios take over. Instead of just taking some time to cool down or calm down, they make things worse. Their worst case scenario could be that the person they love will end the relationship at some point. So what do they do? They make every fight go over the top and may even end the relationship themselves! They feel the other person was going to do it anyway so they took the opportunity to do it first.

 

This is very damaging behavior to a relationship. Fights or arguments can be resolved, and are opportunities for growth and understanding. Making each fight lead to a break up can cause a lot of damage in so many ways. Because each fight with you ends in a break up, the person you love may keep their thoughts and feelings to themselves to avoid it. This leads to a breakdown in communication. Breakdowns in communication create a ripple affect, and affect many other aspects of the relationship as well. As the communication levels shut down, intimacy could shut down, and growing apart starts. Once that happens there is a good chance the relationship will come to an end at some point. Now the worst case scenario has come true! This is just one example of how worst case scenarios can come true because we are so heavily fixated on them. If you allow your worst case scenarios to rule your mind and emotions, they often ultimately show up in your relationships. A psychic reading with Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise can help you concentrate on the reality of your relationship, and how it may be possible to get your best case scenario to come true instead.

Is He Cheating or Has He Cheated on You

  • Posted on May 19, 2013 at 10:11 am
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Is He cheating or has he cheated? Ask a love psychic!

Has your boyfriend been cheating on you with his ex and you just recently found out? Has your husband or wife had an affair or one night stand and you feel betrayed? Has your girlfriend been exchanging racy text messages and emails with a co-worker? Finding out the one you love has been cheating on you can be devastating  If you have been cheated on there are two things you must deal with.

First, you have to deal with your feelings of betrayal and hurt. You feel devastated and your whole world is shaken up. You can’t stop crying, and at times feel numb. You are angry and feel as though you did not deserve it. You hate the fact that this person lied to your face and so easily and often. You wonder about the details, what was said, done, and don’t know what to believe anymore.

Secondly, you now have trust issues, and are not sure if trust can ever be rebuilt even though you may want it to. At times like these a psychic reading can really help to set you straight. Your love psychic can tell you the details you want to know, and if in fact the affair or cheating has really stopped.

Your love psychic reading can also tell you about the person they cheated with or had an affair with. You can discover the motivation, feelings, and how much of a part they played in the cheating / affair was. The person they did the cheating with may not want the affair to end and may be glad you found out because they want them for themselves.

Our love psychics can tell you if this person will continue to try and sabotage your relationship or if they will leave you alone. After you begin to heal, you must decide if you want to give your relationship another chance. Your emotions are all over the place and your trust is gone and you don’t even know what to think. A love psychic reading can help you make the right decision for you. If you want to know if the affair or cheating is really over, a psychic reading can tell you that. If you want to know if it will happen again or if your loved one learned from their mistake give one of our love psychics a call.

 

Being cheated on is devastating, and you can feel so alone and as if no one understands just how you feel. We do, and we are here to help you, with honest, accurate guidance though our psychic readings, whatever your decision is. We don’t judge, we just want to help you get through this tough time with compassion

When will he commit to me? Will I get a Commitment?

  • Posted on May 17, 2013 at 6:42 pm
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When will he commit? Will I get a commitment?

When will he commit to me? When will we be in a committed relationship? Here that question so many times, on a daily basis and while we will do our best to answer it for you, first there are some things we would like you to know.

Marriage is not something to be taken lightly. When entering into a marriage contract there should be a lot of forethought, planning and discussion between the people who are getting married, after considerable time has been emotionally vested by both parties. We find that many callers believe that the ultimate goal of a relationship is marriage and to get there as quickly as possible. Just as there are no instant relationships, there are no quickie marriages either. It is a serious consideration. You are combining your lives and your assets and investing your emotions with another person ‘till death do you part’.  It is a way to enhance your relationship and deepen your commitment to each other, NOT fix  broken relationship.

When will he commit? Get him to say I do!

When will he commit? Get him to say I do!

 

During psychic readings we often get questions about marriage that, quite frankly, confuse the hell out of us. Here are some examples:

  • I keep running into this guy at school/the gym/McDonalds and I think he is really cute, do you think we will get married someday?
  • My girlfriend has cheated on me during our entire relationship, and I have given her an ultimatum to marry me or I am leaving her. Will she marry me?
  • My boyfriend of 3 years has drug and alcohol addictions, but I love him, and want to spend the rest of my life with him. Will we ever get married?
  • I just met a lady on the internet, and we have been instant messaging, texting, and talking on the phone for months talking about marriage. Is she the one?

Let’s start with example #1. Ok, the guy is cute, REALLY CUTE, but what are you even THINKING about marriage for when you know nothing ABOUT him? You have never even spoken to him! A better question would be “Will we ever go on a date?”. Start from the beginning, get to know the person, THEN ask us, after if you decide to get serious with this him. So often we are asked, “Could this lead to marriage?” at the very beginning and that is a very complex answer. It is your choice if you wish to marry someone, not ours. We can tell you if it would be a good marriage, but we cannot tell you who to marry, that is your free will. We can tell you if someone loves you, we can read feelings that are THERE, but 99% of us can’t say “Yeah the guy at the gym will fall madly in love with you.” Because if we tell you “yeah, he will fall madly in love with you,” and then YOU CHOOSE to call him 80 times a day, through your own free will you have sabotaged everything.

Now for example 2… So many times we are faced with situations such as this. The relationship is dysfunctional and completely out of control, yet a person believes if they marry the one they are asking us about, things will miraculously transform – like – POOF..but we are not your fairy godmothers.  Yes, things will change. For the worse. First and foremost, the cheating needs to be addressed. You need to find the answers to basic questions such as:

  • Why was there cheating in your relationship?
  • Can the cheating be stopped?
  • Can the trust be recovered?
  • Can they have a healthy relationship?

Save yourself the trouble and ask about marriage when all of those questions are answered to your satisfaction because without doing so, a cheating girlfriend WILL BECOME a cheating wife.

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When will he commit to me?

Example 3 is more common than you think and unfortunately many people believe that their love can stop a person from addictive behavior. Guess what folks? It can’t. If a person is a true addict, NOTHING and NO ONE is more important than their addiction. If it is alcohol and they are a full-blown alcoholic, they love alcohol more than you. Until their addictive behavior is under control, the relationship is a recipe for disaster. Instead of that question, the real questions should be:

  • Will they overcome their addiction?
  • What can I do so I do not enable them anymore?
  • How do I remain strong in the process and not let them take me down with them?

These questions  we ARE able to answer so that you will be able to see the truth of your situation to determine the path you wish to take for your own happiness.

Example #4 is a frequently asked question now that internet dating is so popular and accepted. But you need to MEET on the internet, and DATE in real life. Text messages, phone conversations, and letters should not replace DATES. You can’t have a relationship by text message, it is just not feasible. You have got to spend time with the person, FACE TO FACE, to see if you are compatible. In this scenario, better questions would be:

  • Does this person really want the same type of relationship I want?
  • Are they talking with or pursuing other online candidates?
  • Will distance be an issue?
  • Are they just looking for sex?

If you have a dysfunctional relationship, you will have a dysfunctional marriage. It is that simple. How many couples do you know who had turbulent dating situations who ended up marrying anyway? Of course their marriage will be turbulent as well! The problems need to be addressed BEFORE the marriage, or it only complicates the issues and makes them more volatile.

We realize so many of you out there want to be married, and we want you to be HAPPILY married. Allow us to guide your current relationship/marriage back on track so you can have the relationship and marriage you have always wanted – one that makes you happy! Psychic Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are both 5-star master psychics who focus on love, romance, soulmates and relationships. If you want to know if your current romantic relationship

Will Time Apart Help the Relationship? Find Out Now

  • Posted on April 14, 2012 at 1:49 pm
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Will Time Apart Help the Relationship

Will Time Apart Help the Relationship?

So many times people call us asking us will time apart help the relationship? Sometimes relationships need time apart to help the relationship get back on track. When things spiral out of control, sometimes it is best for the couple to separate and let things calm down a bit. When a relationship has problems and issues that are never resolved and more just keep piling up, things with only escalate. Having a simple conversation can lead to a heated argument. At times like this being together is really only leading to more fighting and doing more damage. Instead of continuing to hurt one another, it may be best for the couple to take a break.

But is time apart good for a couple? Will time apart help the relationship? First you have to look for the real reason for the break. If it has anything to do with seeing other people during that time, it is not good for the relationship. Keeping the relationship in a holding pattern while pursuing another to see if it goes anywhere is manipulative and deceitful at best.

To ensure the couple’s time apart has a benefit, the time apart must be a reasonable length of time. If the relationship had been otherwise going well and a fight came up, a few days may be all that is necessary. If it has been especially bad, then it may need several weeks of no contact. Time apart must be reasonable as well. To ask someone to wait for an indefinite period of time means you really don’t want to work things out. Too long apart can hurt the relationship, and rarely does it help.

If a couple wants to create change within their relationship, the time apart should be agreed upon by both parties. In order to change from a dysfunctional relationship to a healthy functioning one, there should be some ground rules when the couple is ready to see one another again. Simply missing him or missing her is not going to change you as a person. Thinking “If he misses me long enough he will change” is also in many cases not true either. The point of time apart is to diffuse the emotions,have time to think and calm down, and decide what changes YOU should be making, and what changes you need the one you love to make. Just spending time apart is not going to cut it.

Time apart can actually help you see if breaking up is really the right option so you can then find closure.

A psychic relationship reading will reveal if time apart help the relationship. Psychic readers will show you the best way to handle your time apart, and what you should and should not be doing. Love and relationship psychic readings will tell you what to expect when you do get back together.

Relationship Sabotage: Don’t let your relationship be sabotoged

  • Posted on March 23, 2012 at 2:43 pm

Relationship sabotage happens all the time. Relationship sabotage also comes in many forms so you may not even be aware of it.  Some people know consciously they are sabotaging a relationship but others will sabotage a relationship without evening knowing it. What are some of the reasons people engage in relationship sabotage?

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Relationship Sabotage

People sabotage relationships for many reasons. You may have trust issues from your past because of cheating or being cheated on. Your ex may have sabotaged your relationship by cheating, and even your current partner may do it too. There may not be closure for either you or your partner. Dealing with the ex can be a form of relationship sabotage as well. Because of how badly they were hurt (or you were hurt) by an ex may be the reason your relationship is being sabotaged right now.

People sabotage relationships in many ways. Some people refuse to commit and sabotage the relationship from moving forward. They think if they keep the pace set at “slow” they can keep their feelings from developing too quickly.  Some people come in and out of your life. This form of relationship sabotage is to keep you in their life, but not give the relationship a chance to really develop. Sometimes people are so afraid of a relationship failing that they are afraid to give it a real chance. Why? Because if they give it a chance it has a chance to FAIL. The fear of failure can keep people from commitment, and being consistent with their behavior and words.

A psychic relationship reading can help you rid yourself of the behavior and words that are sabotaging your relationship. Psychic relationship readings are a great way to find out what the motive truly is of the negative things your partner is doing or saying to you. You may think the one you love really does not love you or care about your relationship. You think they are not afraid to lose you, and do not care if they do. You could be way off base, because someone who sabotages a relationship can do it AND love you. Just because someone sabotages a relationship does not mean they want to lose you either.  Discover what is really creating the sabotage in your relationship with a private psychic relationship reading from Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise. With their many years of experience they will be able to cut through the nonsense and see clearly into the heart of what is occurring in your relationship to allow you to bring the relationship sabotage to an end.

 

Why Aren’t You Getting What You Want? A Psychic Love Reading Will Help!

  • Posted on February 23, 2012 at 1:18 pm

Why aren’t you getting what you want, specifically when it comes to your romantic relationships? We have been providing psychic love reading for many years now and over time we have realized that many of you are asking the same general questions. So for those who have yet to have a psychic love reading with us, we have listed some of the best questions to ask during your psychic love reading.

Questions to ask during your Psychic Love Reading

  1. Why can’t I find my soulmate?
  2. Why won’t he give me a commitment?
  3. Why do I attract the wrong men?
  4. Why won’t he express his feelings?
  5. Why did he break up with me?
  6. Why can’t I convince him to get back together with me?
  7. Why won’t he share his thoughts and talk to me?
  8. Why won’t he take me anywhere?
  9. Why won’t he make me his girlfriend or marry me?
  10. Why does he keep making mistakes over and over?
  11. Why does he keep talking to his ex?
  12. Why doesn’t he ask me out?
  13. Why can’t I get closure?
  14. Why did he cheat on me?
  15.  Why won’t he change?
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Are You Getting What YOU Want in Your Relationship

As experienced love and relationships psychics we understand clients are not getting what they want or what they deserve and have the right to know why. Quite often it is your own fear getting in the way. You need to see that you are not powerless, that you do have, in many cases, the ability to create change and get what you want out of your relationship and the one you love. Quite often fear keeps you from doing what needs to be done to create that change. That is the same fear keeping the one you love from making those changes too.

We know that your fear is real. It is often our job to let you know you fear what you must overcome and that fear is holding you and your relationship back from moving forward. For so long you may have thought you were doing everything right, and tried everything possible. Are you sure? Or did you only do the things you were not afraid of doing? Have they worked? No. So now it is time to get brave.

If nothing is going to change and you cannot change it, you need to accept that. A psychic love reading gets to the bottom of your issues and fears,why you are not getting what you want and deserve, and if it is possible that you can. Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise will take your psychic love reading to a whole different level. As psychic relationship life coaches, we empower, not enable you. Sure, you could constantly call us and ask us if he is going to call because he goes quiet and disappears on you, and you would get a time frame and that would be that. But wouldn’t you like to see if it is possible to stop him from disappearing on you? Wouldn’t you like to solve the problem rather than put a band aid on a gunshot wound? We, as psychic love and relationship experts, want to help you help yourself. We want to help you make changes in yourself, your partner, and your relationship for the better, not dealing with the same problems over and over again. Change is hard, but we are there for you every step of the way to get you on the right path.

Emotional Cheating : Just as Bad as Physical Cheating

  • Posted on February 18, 2012 at 12:15 pm
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Emotional Cheating is as Bad as Physical Cheating

Emotional cheating or affair can be just as destructive to a relationship as a physical affair. Just because sexual activity has not happened, many people think that it is not as damaging, and that their relationship can survive. Emotional cheating is just as destructive, because where a sex act can be considered purely physical, an emotional affair involves feelings and can take a longer time to get over.  People seem to think the worst thing that can happen is if the one they love has sex with someone else, but when the one they love develops feelings for someone else, that is where the trouble truly lies.

We have had many readings with thousands of clients who have been cheated on, and they say the hardest thing to deal with is the emotional devastation left as a result of emotional cheating. Most people will not end a relationship just because of sex. They will, however, end a relationship because of the feelings they have for someone else. Love and Relationship Psychics, Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise, can tell you if emotional cheating of physical cheating is involved in your relationship. You may not want to hear it but you need to know the truth, so you can decide to save this relationship or walk away and get the closure you need to move on with your life.

The communication may have broken down in your relationship and the one you love may be afraid to tell you the gory details and the truth of what is really going on. He may say this person is “just a friend” and they have never crossed the line into anything physical. That may set your mind at ease, but you also need to know if there are any feelings between them of a romantic nature. If there are, it may be just a matter of time before the physical  line is crossed.

You may be having an emotional affair of your own, don’t know what the future holds for you and what you should do next. You may not have meant to develop feelings and emotions for this person, but you have. A psychic relationship reading can tell you how to untangle the mess you are in, and see the if there will be any consequences, or a happy ending.

Starting A New Relationship Before Getting Closure On Your Old One

  • Posted on February 15, 2012 at 9:51 pm

Have you ever started a new relationship before getting closure on the one you are in? When men and women come to the realization that their relationship is going nowhere and they are feeling frustrated they do not always end their relationship right away. Since many people are afraid to end up alone or don’t want to be alone, to be on the safe side, they start a new relationship before they end the old one and get closure. They may not even be seeking a new person for romance, but they seem to attract them nonetheless.

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Starting a New Relationship for closure

A new relationship begins to form, and they put all their energy and effort into building a new relationship and pulling it away from their old one and getting closure.  Many times, when the relationship comes to an end, the other party had no idea it was coming, and take it very very hard. They may even try to do anything they can to salvage the relationship, but they don’t know they don’t stand a chance, because the other person’s interest has shifted entirely to the new romance. This not only prevents the one who started the new relationship from getting closure but will definitely prevent the other party from getting closure because they will feel cheated on. They will feel their relationship never truly came to an end.

As they begin to see that their efforts are going no where, their mind starts to wander. They begin to think perhaps there is someone new in the picture. The next question they come up with is: Were they seeing this person before we broke up? Now they are not just crushed by the loss of someone they love, but they feel stupid and betrayed because they may have been cheated on. The reasons they were given for the break up were missing a big chunk, and that part was that they have feelings for someone else.

They want the truth, and a psychic love reading will give them the truth, warts and all. If you suspect that the reason your relationship ended is because your ex started something before you broke up, why not give love and relationship psychics Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise a call? They can tell you not only if they were cheating, but also if their new relationship will work out or fall to pieces. You may want them to come crawling back, either so you can take them back and work things out, or laugh in their face.

How you handle this break up and new relationship is up to you. There is right way and a wrong way, and you sure do not want to pick the wrong way. During a psychic love reading we can guide you on exactly what to do, what not to do, and how to remain empowered, and not be a victim to this horrible scenario.