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Are You Still Stuck on Your Ex? Time to Move Forward with YOUR Life

  • Posted on January 26, 2017 at 4:05 am
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Are you still stuck on your ex? Are you trying as hard as you can to get over your ex but it isn’t working? Do you wish you could move on and find someone else but are having no luck? Do you wonder what your ex is doing and if they are…

Why Stay in a Bad Relationship?

  • Posted on November 16, 2016 at 7:27 pm
Why Stay in a Bad Relationship?

Why stay in a bad relationship that isn’t working? Why would you stay in a bad relationship where things have only continued to get worse? Do you think your relationship is going improve by some miracle? Do you think if you hang on to a bad relationship somehow it will get…

Heartbroken Over My Ex

  • Posted on July 27, 2015 at 9:00 am

I’m heartbroken over my ex and can’t stop thinking about him/her. How can I get my ex out of my head? My ex is seeing someone else, and I am heartbroken. How can I move forward like my ex has? I am heartbroken over my ex who recently got married.…

Healing a Broken Heart After A Breakup

  • Posted on May 19, 2013 at 11:26 am

Some people feel as if their broken heart will never heal. When a break up occurs, it can often live you both blind sided and emotionally distraught. The healing process for a broken heart can take a long time, and if not done in a timely manner you can spend months or even years feeling miserable. You may be wondering why it ended, or feeling hurt that it did, and hoping that perhaps you will get back together again.


Having hope is fine, as long as it is realistic. If you are not going to get back together, you need to focus on moving on instead. It is hard for your heart to hear and accept that there is no longer any hope.  You may hope a chance at reconciliation, so you choose to cling to that hope because it makes you feel better. It may be time for you to concentrate on healing from the break up instead so you can move on to a new relationship. That may not be what you want to hear, but if it is the reality of your situation, you need to hear it, so your broken heart can begin to heal.


Healing a Broken Heart After A Breakup

Healing a Broken Heart After A Breakup

Quite often people want to heal their broken heart because it hurts so bad. It affects their health, weight,grooming,job,sleep, you name it. But if you avoid accepting the reality that the relationship is over so you can begin healing your broken heart, you actually are keeping your heart-broken! You can try to avoid it, but you are only hurting yourself in the long run and keeping yourself stuck in a miserable state.  You may even be going through this period of mourning the end of your relationship for nothing.  A love psychic reading may tell you the exact opposite, that you should postpone the healing process because your reading shows that reconciliation is in the cards. Why go through the healing process if you do not have to? Wouldn’t that time be put to better use by focusing on how to make the relationship better when given the chance? Of course it would. But how do you know if you should start the process or start it? A love psychic reading can examine your relationship, see what your ex is feeling and thinking, and if he or she misses you and is willing to try again. Your ex may have their heart-broken too, even though you don’t know about it or can’t tell.  A love psychic reading is a great way to find out what the future holds for you and your ex. Instead of making excuses to contact your ex and perhaps making a mistake, contact one of our love psychics instead and get the answers you seek.


The first step in healing a broken heart after a breakup would be acceptance that it is really over. You may feel you cannot live with out your ex, and refuse to accept your future without them.  If it really is over, it really is over, and it’s time for you to accept it, and that it is time to start the healing process now. You may finally accept it’s over when a love psychic tells you they see your ex has moved on, gotten closure, and is seeing other people. That information may hurt, but it may be what you need to hear so you too can have closure and eventually begin dating again.


You have to allow yourself to hurt in order to heal.  Broken hearts really hurt, so it takes quite of bit of time to heal properly. Be realistic with your expectations and take it easy on yourself. It is not going to take 5 minutes to grieve, so give yourself a reasonable amount of time to, quite frankly, feel like garbage. Don’t let yourself linger too long in your grieving stage, as other areas of your life are put on hold and can suffer. Love psychics can really help during this time, and empower you to see the future ahead of you, instead of mourning your past.


Surround yourself with positive, supportive people. Push the thoughts and memories of your ex from your mind when they arise. Day by day, this will get gradually easier and your broken heart will begin to heal. The pain won’t get easier if you don’t start the process. You will stay in limbo while the rest of the world (and your ex) moves on. Times like this often requite outside help, and love psychics Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are here to help. With years of psychic life coaching and counseling thousands of clients, Sophia Elise and Lady Sarah can help you accept if it is indeed time to heal and move on after your break up, or hang in there, be strong, and when given the chance, make your relationship better this next time around.

Are You in Denial Regarding your Relationship?

  • Posted on October 12, 2012 at 11:21 am

Are You in Denial?

Are You in Denial? Get Clarity with a Psychic Love Reading

Are you being honest with yourself regarding your relationship and the one you love or are you in denial? A psychic love reading can help you see your relationship clearly, for what it is, and help you face reality. It is time to open your eyes so you can move forward and be productive, rather that allowing denial to keep you stuck.

Are you in an affair thinking he will divorce someday? Has he told you he would never leave her but you believe one day he will? Are you right, or are you in denial?  Love psychics are neutral parties who will tell you truthfully if what you believe is correct, or if you are in denial.

Have you broken up as a couple but you believe you and your ex have a chance to get back together? Has your ex told you they have no interest in getting back together but you still think there is a chance? A psychic love reading will tell you if there is a chance for you and your ex to get back together and reunite, or if it is time for you to move on and get closure. If you are in denial you will never get closure because you are not willing to let it go.

Are you involved in an internet romance that has fizzled? Have they run hot and cold with you or dropped out of sight? Are you in denial thinking things will pick back up again? Psychic love readings will tell you if you need to let go of this internet romance and find another one, or if there is good reason for their behavior.

Are you thinking about your ex, or someone you love that you have not seen in a while? Are you convinced they must be thinking of you too? They could be, but you don’t know for certain. Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are two of the best online love psychics who will be able to tell you if your past love is having thoughts of you, or if they have moved on and you are stuck in a state of denial. The best love psychics will inform you if there are still feelings there on both sides, and if there is a chance for the two of you again in the future.

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Are You In Denial?

What if the one you love is not treating you right? What if they make promises they don’t keep, don’t make enough time for you, and only seem to be concerned with their needs and not yours. You need to know if the one you love also loves you and find out if you are in denial. They may love you but not treat you in a loving manner. Only the best love psychics will reveal if you have been denying the fact that your relationship is in shambles and he treats you like garbage. Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise can tell you if there is a way for you to get him to treat you better, or if you have to face reality that it will either stay the same or get worse.

The best love psychics can will tell you if you are in denial and focus on reality when it comes to love and relationships. An expert love psychic speaks the truth, where sometimes our hearts are in denial from the truth.

Sometimes when we are in denial and refuse to face the truth, the universe throws things in our lives to make us stand up and take notice. Quite often they are negative things, but it was the only way to get our attention. A love psychic can show you how the obstacles in your love life, career, and finances may be the universe’s way of getting you out of the state of denial so you can make the changes you need to. The best love psychics, Sophia Elise and Lady Sarah, will show you how to deal with the issues you have been avoiding. Get out of denial today and life your life to the fullest.

You Have Been Dumped, But Are You Better Off Without Him?

  • Posted on July 11, 2012 at 3:34 pm

You have been dumped and it is a horrible dis-empowering feeling. Now that your relationship is over, your primary focus may be getting him to give the relationship another chance. You may be focusing on how much you miss the good things about him, or are jealous and hurt that he left you for someone else. What you should really be asking yourself at this time is:  Are you better off without him?

Sometimes, when someone ends a relationship with you, the shock of it keeps you stuck in a strange place. Because you cannot believe they would do it to you, especially after all you have done for them, makes you feel you did not deserve the breakup. But, you have been dumped. When you feel you did not deserve it, you want him to change his mind. Look at it from a different perspective. Maybe you did deserve to be dumped, because the universe wanted you to stop wasting your time with someone so undeserving. The universe may have shown you all the reasons that you should have dumped him, but you chose not to. Maybe you have been dumped because it is the right thing for you, and he was the wrong man for you.

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You Have Been Dumped, But Are You Better Off Without Him?

Stop thinking that he will never find someone as good to him as you were. That is his loss, not yours. You should be looking forward to finding someone who will be better to YOU then he was. Enough of being jealous of the new woman in his life. Feel sorry for her, because she will wind up with the same guy you did. Maybe she deserves him, but you deserve better!! Besides he will probably dump her as well!
Don’t worry about all the time you invested in him. You can now invest your precious time on someone who will give 100% like you did. Don’t focus on the time you wasted, but that you are no longer wasting your time.If this man was good to you, and really treated you well ( not here and there, but 90% of the time) and the bad times were really not bad, then maybe you are not better off without him. If you were happy with who he was, not who you thought he may change into, then he is worthy of an attempt to reconcile. If the bad times were real bad, he needs to stay gone.You are not the only one who gets to decide if he will give this a chance, or if he will dump you again sometime in the future. If he has done this before, you need to know if he will do it again before you give him yet another chance.First realistically decide if you are better or with him, or without him. Then, once you have clarity, you can find the right path for yourself. That path will either lead towards reconciliation, or closure.

Should I Contact My Ex? or Wait for Him to Contact Me?

  • Posted on April 22, 2012 at 9:21 am

Should I Contact My Ex or Wait for Him to Contact Me?

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Should I Contact my Ex?

You may have been asking yourself  “Should I contact my ex?” and “Should I wait for my ex to contact me?” and you can’t seem to decide which is the better idea.  You may not have closure from your ex, and the relationship and love you once shared, and think contacting him would be a good idea.  So which is the better option, to contact the ex or wait for him to contact you? A psychic relationship reading can give you the right answer, rather than allow you to make the mistake of reaching out to him when has no interest in hearing from you.

For all you know, your ex may have the desire to contact you. Your ex could also be avoiding you, still angry with you, or not in a place right now where contact would be positive.  Even though you may feel the need to contact the ex, it may not be the right time to do so and a psychic love reading can take the guessing and wondering out of the equation. If you are going to make contact with an ex, there must be a reason. Have you been feeling any of the following:

1. I miss my ex and feel the need to make contact with him.

2. I want my ex back and think if I contact my ex he will come back.

3. I am afraid if I do not contact my ex he won’t come back and we won’t get back together.

4. I always have to give in to my ex and make contact, and if I don’t, I will lose him.

5. I think I need to contact my ex, because if I don’t I am afraid he will forget about me.

6. Is it better for me to contact my ex or wait for him to contact me? Should I not give in this time?

7. Should I wait for my ex to contact me or is that the wrong move?

8. I cannot get my ex off my mind and feel it may be a sign that I should contact my ex,

9. I want to contact my ex before he finds someone else.

10. I have run out of patience waiting for my ex to contact me, so maybe I should just do it and get it over with.

A psychic relationship reading will help you see what needs to be done regarding your ex, and warn you against doing things that could turn out negatively. If you want to know what your ex is thinking about you, how he feels about you, if he is missing you, and if he has been thinking about you, all these questions can be answered during your psychic reading.

You may be sad and lonely since your breakup. Dealing with the emotions that come with breaking up, even if you are the one who initiated the break-up, can be devastating. You may have tried on your own to get closure, but it keeps eluding you.  A love psychic can see if it really is time for you to put your relationship in the past in order to move forward. You may be holding on to false hope or wishful thinking, and a psychic reading will help you accept the truth. You could be worrying for no reason at all, and may not be able to get closure because the relationship and feelings are not over for the both of you.

When it comes to past relationships, we may regret those we let go of or that let go of us. We may want to reach out and contact the ex see if there is a way to get back together and give the relationship another shot. But what if your ex contacts you but did not mention anything about getting back together? Why did your ex contact you then? A love psychic reading can tell you why your ex contacted you, and what he hoped to gain by contacting you. Not every ex you hear from desires to reunite and put the relationship back together. A relationship psychic reading will tell you what, if anything, your exes intentions are for contacting you.

Will Time Apart Help the Relationship? Find Out Now

  • Posted on April 14, 2012 at 1:49 pm
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Will Time Apart Help the Relationship

Will Time Apart Help the Relationship?

So many times people call us asking us will time apart help the relationship? Sometimes relationships need time apart to help the relationship get back on track. When things spiral out of control, sometimes it is best for the couple to separate and let things calm down a bit. When a relationship has problems and issues that are never resolved and more just keep piling up, things with only escalate. Having a simple conversation can lead to a heated argument. At times like this being together is really only leading to more fighting and doing more damage. Instead of continuing to hurt one another, it may be best for the couple to take a break.

But is time apart good for a couple? Will time apart help the relationship? First you have to look for the real reason for the break. If it has anything to do with seeing other people during that time, it is not good for the relationship. Keeping the relationship in a holding pattern while pursuing another to see if it goes anywhere is manipulative and deceitful at best.

To ensure the couple’s time apart has a benefit, the time apart must be a reasonable length of time. If the relationship had been otherwise going well and a fight came up, a few days may be all that is necessary. If it has been especially bad, then it may need several weeks of no contact. Time apart must be reasonable as well. To ask someone to wait for an indefinite period of time means you really don’t want to work things out. Too long apart can hurt the relationship, and rarely does it help.

If a couple wants to create change within their relationship, the time apart should be agreed upon by both parties. In order to change from a dysfunctional relationship to a healthy functioning one, there should be some ground rules when the couple is ready to see one another again. Simply missing him or missing her is not going to change you as a person. Thinking “If he misses me long enough he will change” is also in many cases not true either. The point of time apart is to diffuse the emotions,have time to think and calm down, and decide what changes YOU should be making, and what changes you need the one you love to make. Just spending time apart is not going to cut it.

Time apart can actually help you see if breaking up is really the right option so you can then find closure.

A psychic relationship reading will reveal if time apart help the relationship. Psychic readers will show you the best way to handle your time apart, and what you should and should not be doing. Love and relationship psychic readings will tell you what to expect when you do get back together.

You Love Him But He Does Not Love You, what do you do now?

  • Posted on March 30, 2012 at 1:58 pm

You Love Him But He Does Not Love You?

Many of you have been in the position where you love him but he does not love you. You love him more than you have ever loved anyone, but sadly, he does not feel the same way. Your heart breaks every day because no matter how hard you try to forget him, you love him deeper and deeper.You think if you stay away from him, you will forget him. Instead, you love him AND you miss him? So what do you do when you love him but he does not love you in return?

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He Loves Me He Loves Me Not

Your friends and family may tell you to forget about him and move on. The people who love you see you hurting and depressed and want you, more than anything, not to love him any more. But they just don’t get it do they? If you could just snap your fingers and you would no longer love him, you would do it! You hate feeling like this! Every time he hurts you, you wish you didn’t love him. Sometimes you feel you love him and hate him at the same time. You do not want to feel like this, and have tried everything not to love him, but it just isn’t working. The fact that he does not love you makes you wonder if there is something wrong with you.

If you are tired of feeling depressed, and wish you could move on from this and feel better, there are certain things you can do. You may love him forever, but that does not mean that because you love him it has to hurt you forever.

First, let’s look at what may be keeping you stuck. Did he lead you to believe he may love you the way you love him someday? If he did, then he led you on. Are you holding onto the hope that one day he may feel the same way about you? A psychic relationship reading with Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise can tell you if you should hold onto that hope, or if it is truly time to let go. A psychic relationship reading does not give you false hope to keep you stuck in this cycle. Although it may hurt to hear that he may never love you the way you love him, you need to hear it, and accept it. A psychic relationship reading can be the first step towards closure.

Secondly, if your daily activity revolves around wondering what he way be doing, that is not a productive use of your time. Lamenting the fact that he does not love you will get you nowhere. A psychic relationship reading can help you to stop dwelling on his life, and put the focus back on your own, where it belongs. You may love him and someday he will return those feelings, but it does you no good to dwell on his life. You need to have a life of your own and stay out of his.

He may come around one day, he may not. Either way, you have to live your life. You need to be open today with someone who can give you love today. Waiting around for someone that may never love you is a disservice to yourself and a waste of your time. Yes, you love him, but you need to love yourself more! If he does not love you, maybe a guy who will love and appreciate you will be crossing your path soon if you open up to it.

Emotional Cheating : Just as Bad as Physical Cheating

  • Posted on February 18, 2012 at 12:15 pm
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Emotional Cheating is as Bad as Physical Cheating

Emotional cheating or affair can be just as destructive to a relationship as a physical affair. Just because sexual activity has not happened, many people think that it is not as damaging, and that their relationship can survive. Emotional cheating is just as destructive, because where a sex act can be considered purely physical, an emotional affair involves feelings and can take a longer time to get over.  People seem to think the worst thing that can happen is if the one they love has sex with someone else, but when the one they love develops feelings for someone else, that is where the trouble truly lies.

We have had many readings with thousands of clients who have been cheated on, and they say the hardest thing to deal with is the emotional devastation left as a result of emotional cheating. Most people will not end a relationship just because of sex. They will, however, end a relationship because of the feelings they have for someone else. Love and Relationship Psychics, Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise, can tell you if emotional cheating of physical cheating is involved in your relationship. You may not want to hear it but you need to know the truth, so you can decide to save this relationship or walk away and get the closure you need to move on with your life.

The communication may have broken down in your relationship and the one you love may be afraid to tell you the gory details and the truth of what is really going on. He may say this person is “just a friend” and they have never crossed the line into anything physical. That may set your mind at ease, but you also need to know if there are any feelings between them of a romantic nature. If there are, it may be just a matter of time before the physical  line is crossed.

You may be having an emotional affair of your own, don’t know what the future holds for you and what you should do next. You may not have meant to develop feelings and emotions for this person, but you have. A psychic relationship reading can tell you how to untangle the mess you are in, and see the if there will be any consequences, or a happy ending.