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Is Your Relationship Destined to Last?

  • Posted on October 26, 2014 at 11:55 am
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Is Your Relationship Destined to Last?

Is your relationship destined to last? Do you feel that your relationship is destined to work out against all odds? Destiny may play a part in your relationship with the one you love. Destiny can’t be held responsible for the longevity of your relationship though.

If the two of you keep making mistake after mistake, destiny is going to find another couple to help out. The mistakes you two keep making (and repeating) could make your relationship destined NEVER to work out. We play a role in our destiny. Destiny is not our get out of jail free card. You two may have been destined to meet one another, but once you did, you play a role in the destiny of your relationship. Destiny can often bring us the opportunity to have a relationship, but destiny is not in control of how we behave in the relationship. Destiny is not responsible for our mistakes.

Destiny does not prevent our making mistakes in relationships either. Our free will comes into play more often than destiny. Do not give destiny the credit for having the power to keep you together. That power lies with the two of you for the most part.

It could be that your relationship is destined to fail, and that you are with the wrong person. Just because your relationship has survived doesn’t mean it should have. Sometimes destiny steps in to show us just how dysfunctional our relationships really are. For instance, you may have been destined to find out the one you love has been cheating on you. Is that so you can overcome infidelity, or because you are not destined to be together in the first place?
Destiny can assist us with obtaining the things we want most in life. Destiny can also give us a hand and help us let go of the things that although we want them, we need to let go of them. All things in our lives are not pre destined. We make our daily choices, decision and make our mistakes which set the direction our lives move in. Destiny may throw things off course, but we must look at destiny with open eyes and an open mind. We cannot always think destiny will give us everything and everyone that we want in our lives. Sometimes destiny does us a favor by forcing us to face things we do not want to see.

Is your relationship destined to last or destined to fail? All relationships can’t be destined to last. But is yours? Why not get a psychic reading and find out what the future has in store for your relationship?

When will he commit to me? Will I get a Commitment?

  • Posted on May 17, 2013 at 6:42 pm
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When will he commit? Will I get a commitment?

When will he commit to me? When will we be in a committed relationship? Here that question so many times, on a daily basis and while we will do our best to answer it for you, first there are some things we would like you to know.

Marriage is not something to be taken lightly. When entering into a marriage contract there should be a lot of forethought, planning and discussion between the people who are getting married, after considerable time has been emotionally vested by both parties. We find that many callers believe that the ultimate goal of a relationship is marriage and to get there as quickly as possible. Just as there are no instant relationships, there are no quickie marriages either. It is a serious consideration. You are combining your lives and your assets and investing your emotions with another person ‘till death do you part’.  It is a way to enhance your relationship and deepen your commitment to each other, NOT fix  broken relationship.

When will he commit? Get him to say I do!

When will he commit? Get him to say I do!

 

During psychic readings we often get questions about marriage that, quite frankly, confuse the hell out of us. Here are some examples:

  • I keep running into this guy at school/the gym/McDonalds and I think he is really cute, do you think we will get married someday?
  • My girlfriend has cheated on me during our entire relationship, and I have given her an ultimatum to marry me or I am leaving her. Will she marry me?
  • My boyfriend of 3 years has drug and alcohol addictions, but I love him, and want to spend the rest of my life with him. Will we ever get married?
  • I just met a lady on the internet, and we have been instant messaging, texting, and talking on the phone for months talking about marriage. Is she the one?

Let’s start with example #1. Ok, the guy is cute, REALLY CUTE, but what are you even THINKING about marriage for when you know nothing ABOUT him? You have never even spoken to him! A better question would be “Will we ever go on a date?”. Start from the beginning, get to know the person, THEN ask us, after if you decide to get serious with this him. So often we are asked, “Could this lead to marriage?” at the very beginning and that is a very complex answer. It is your choice if you wish to marry someone, not ours. We can tell you if it would be a good marriage, but we cannot tell you who to marry, that is your free will. We can tell you if someone loves you, we can read feelings that are THERE, but 99% of us can’t say “Yeah the guy at the gym will fall madly in love with you.” Because if we tell you “yeah, he will fall madly in love with you,” and then YOU CHOOSE to call him 80 times a day, through your own free will you have sabotaged everything.

Now for example 2… So many times we are faced with situations such as this. The relationship is dysfunctional and completely out of control, yet a person believes if they marry the one they are asking us about, things will miraculously transform – like – POOF..but we are not your fairy godmothers.  Yes, things will change. For the worse. First and foremost, the cheating needs to be addressed. You need to find the answers to basic questions such as:

  • Why was there cheating in your relationship?
  • Can the cheating be stopped?
  • Can the trust be recovered?
  • Can they have a healthy relationship?

Save yourself the trouble and ask about marriage when all of those questions are answered to your satisfaction because without doing so, a cheating girlfriend WILL BECOME a cheating wife.

When will he commit to me?

When will he commit to me?

Example 3 is more common than you think and unfortunately many people believe that their love can stop a person from addictive behavior. Guess what folks? It can’t. If a person is a true addict, NOTHING and NO ONE is more important than their addiction. If it is alcohol and they are a full-blown alcoholic, they love alcohol more than you. Until their addictive behavior is under control, the relationship is a recipe for disaster. Instead of that question, the real questions should be:

  • Will they overcome their addiction?
  • What can I do so I do not enable them anymore?
  • How do I remain strong in the process and not let them take me down with them?

These questions  we ARE able to answer so that you will be able to see the truth of your situation to determine the path you wish to take for your own happiness.

Example #4 is a frequently asked question now that internet dating is so popular and accepted. But you need to MEET on the internet, and DATE in real life. Text messages, phone conversations, and letters should not replace DATES. You can’t have a relationship by text message, it is just not feasible. You have got to spend time with the person, FACE TO FACE, to see if you are compatible. In this scenario, better questions would be:

  • Does this person really want the same type of relationship I want?
  • Are they talking with or pursuing other online candidates?
  • Will distance be an issue?
  • Are they just looking for sex?

If you have a dysfunctional relationship, you will have a dysfunctional marriage. It is that simple. How many couples do you know who had turbulent dating situations who ended up marrying anyway? Of course their marriage will be turbulent as well! The problems need to be addressed BEFORE the marriage, or it only complicates the issues and makes them more volatile.

We realize so many of you out there want to be married, and we want you to be HAPPILY married. Allow us to guide your current relationship/marriage back on track so you can have the relationship and marriage you have always wanted – one that makes you happy! Psychic Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are both 5-star master psychics who focus on love, romance, soulmates and relationships. If you want to know if your current romantic relationship

Will Time Apart Help the Relationship? Find Out Now

  • Posted on April 14, 2012 at 1:49 pm
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Will Time Apart Help the Relationship

Will Time Apart Help the Relationship?

So many times people call us asking us will time apart help the relationship? Sometimes relationships need time apart to help the relationship get back on track. When things spiral out of control, sometimes it is best for the couple to separate and let things calm down a bit. When a relationship has problems and issues that are never resolved and more just keep piling up, things with only escalate. Having a simple conversation can lead to a heated argument. At times like this being together is really only leading to more fighting and doing more damage. Instead of continuing to hurt one another, it may be best for the couple to take a break.

But is time apart good for a couple? Will time apart help the relationship? First you have to look for the real reason for the break. If it has anything to do with seeing other people during that time, it is not good for the relationship. Keeping the relationship in a holding pattern while pursuing another to see if it goes anywhere is manipulative and deceitful at best.

To ensure the couple’s time apart has a benefit, the time apart must be a reasonable length of time. If the relationship had been otherwise going well and a fight came up, a few days may be all that is necessary. If it has been especially bad, then it may need several weeks of no contact. Time apart must be reasonable as well. To ask someone to wait for an indefinite period of time means you really don’t want to work things out. Too long apart can hurt the relationship, and rarely does it help.

If a couple wants to create change within their relationship, the time apart should be agreed upon by both parties. In order to change from a dysfunctional relationship to a healthy functioning one, there should be some ground rules when the couple is ready to see one another again. Simply missing him or missing her is not going to change you as a person. Thinking “If he misses me long enough he will change” is also in many cases not true either. The point of time apart is to diffuse the emotions,have time to think and calm down, and decide what changes YOU should be making, and what changes you need the one you love to make. Just spending time apart is not going to cut it.

Time apart can actually help you see if breaking up is really the right option so you can then find closure.

A psychic relationship reading will reveal if time apart help the relationship. Psychic readers will show you the best way to handle your time apart, and what you should and should not be doing. Love and relationship psychic readings will tell you what to expect when you do get back together.

Getting Him to Commit

  • Posted on October 4, 2011 at 6:11 pm

Are you struggling with getting him to commit? Have you been with a man for a long time and still waiting for a commitment? Have you been sitting, waiting, both patiently and impatiently for him to step up to the plate and offer you the commitment you feel you have earned and deserve? Have you been dating a new man, have not yet gotten a commitment, and are worried he will never give you one? Are you trying to make getting him to commit your number one priority in this relationship? Well slow down a bit. You may be going about this the wrong way.

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Getting Him to Commit

Many women believe getting him to commit is something they can earn over time. Sure, that theory holds true for some men, but not all. You could be with a man for over TWENTY years and he could still not be ready, willing, or able to give you a commitment. If you are hopeful of getting him to commit and are worried you may never get that commitment, contact the love psychics, Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise.

As love psychics, they have the ability to tell you if a commitment from your man is around the corner, going to be a long wait, or is never going to happen. No one wants to put time, energy and effort into a relationship when they are never going to get what they want. A commitment helps propel a relationship forward and allow it to grow and evolve.

Getting him to commit does not necessarily mean marriage. Celebrities Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell have a committed relationship but are not married. You could be married, yet your partner is not honoring that commitment and is being unfaithful. Commitment means different things to different people.

We all need to seriously think about exactly what kind of commitment we need in a relationship. Is it the promise of monogamy, or marriage (or both)?  What kind of time frame to do you feel is reasonable for you to expect that commitment? Is he already committed to someone else? Obviously he doesn’t really have a commitment to you or the other woman if he has you both in his life.

Why not call love psychics Sophia Elise and Lady Sarah and find out when HE WILL be ready to commit and what commitment means to him.

Women tend to stick it out for years, because they feel if they leave, then they wasted all that time. Unfortunately they fail to realize they could be wasting even more time because getting him to commit is never going to come. A psychic relationship reading with Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise can reveal if you should give up on a hopeless situation or stick it out.

Some women are afraid to push the envelope and demand a commitment. There is a right and a wrong way to do that. There is also a right time and place to do that as well. Let Sophia Elise and Lady Sarah guide you down the path you need to take to get the commitment you want.