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Valentine’s Day After a Break-Up

  • Posted on February 9, 2017 at 2:00 pm

Valentine’s Day when you’ve broken up is especially difficult. Many people have experienced their relationships ending right before, or even on, Valentine’s Day! That makes Valentine’s Day especially hard to bear. It worse is when all you want is your ex back, instead of being angry at them. You hate being broken up and want to be back together.

 

You may think they have moved on and will be celebrating Valentine’s Day with someone else. It pains you to think of them happy with a new love while you still have not gotten the break up. You feel tempted to call them or text them and wish them a happy Valentine’s Day. But when they don’t answer the call or text, you wind up feeling even worse.

Valentine's Day After a Break-Up

Valentine’s Day After a Break-Up

What are you supposed to do on Valentine’s Day when you have broken up and you are not over it yet? How do you handle it when it seems like everyone on earth but you is celebrating love with someone special? All you can think about is your ex and it hurts knowing they haven’t reached out to reconcile. It depresses you to know that Valentine’s Day could come and go without them thinking about you, especially since you cannot stop thinking about them. So is Valentine’s Day just a form or torture or a sign you need to accept that you have broken up and move on?

 

First, don’t let Valentine’s Day make you do something stupid. If your relationship has ended don’t let Valentine’s Day make you do something you will regret. Don’t let the sentimentally and the fact you are alone on Valentine’s Day make you lose your mind. Don’t forget the break up and why it happened. If you did it, more than likely you had good reasons to do so. Those reasons should not be put on the back burner for a 24 hour holiday. It more than likely took a lot of guts to break up with someone you still cared about, so don’t undo it based on a temporary feeling.

 

Let Valentine’s Day come and go and then use your brain, instead of your emotions, to look back on your relationship. If they broke up with you, focus on the break up. Did they have a valid reason for breaking up or are they just sabotaging what you could have? Do people break up with all the time for no good reason? If your answer to either of those questions is yes, then you need to take a more hardened look at your ex.

 

You didn’t deserve what they did, and you should not be ready, willing and able to sign up for that to happen to you again. Your ex is showing you who they are and you really should not like their real self. That part needs to change. You really need to put your foot down and change how you react to the break ups and your part of getting back together. Change your ways or they won’t change theirs and you will wind up spending many, many Valentine’s Days alone.

 

Don’t worry so much about them coming back, but worry about it getting worse the next time around, and do something different so they do something different. If you focus on creating change within yourself first, which can create change with them, you may never have to face Valentine’s Day alone again.

Are You Still Stuck on Your Ex? Time to Move Forward with YOUR Life

  • Posted on January 26, 2017 at 4:05 am
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Are you still stuck on your ex? Are you trying as hard as you can to get over your ex but it isn’t working? Do you wish you could move on and find someone else but are having no luck? Do you wonder what your ex is doing and if they are…

Will Your Soul Mate and His Ex Make It?

  • Posted on January 12, 2017 at 3:00 pm
Will Your Soul mate and His Ex Make It?

Will your soul mate and his ex make it? For some unknown reason, that to you could never make sense, your soul mate decided to let go of your great relationship and try to make it with his ex. You remember his ex, right? The one they said treated them…

You Miss Him but Does He Miss You?

  • Posted on September 11, 2016 at 9:50 am

Do you miss him and wonder does he miss you? Have you been trying to forget about your ex but finding thoughts of them keep creeping up on you? It’s hard to not think about an ex, especially when the break up is still fresh in your mind. We have a tendency to think about the good times, and how much we miss him. If you still hold out hope you may reconcile, you have the he will miss you too. When a break up happens, especially if it is unexpected, we focus on the good times and all the things we will miss out on. We forget about the red flags and recurring problems and instead often look back wearing rose-colored glasses.

You Miss Him but Does He Miss You?

You Miss Him but Does He Miss You?

It is hard when you wish you could have another chance but don’t think you ever will. Things with your ex might not be what they seem. Sure, you may be hearing how they have moved on. You may see pictures of them on social media smiling and looking happy. This makes you miserable because you miss him so much and it seems like he does not miss you at all. But how do you know that he isn’t just putting on a front and that those pictures are how he really feels? You would be surprised how often, out of the blue, an ex you thought had moved on comes back into the picture.

It is ok to miss your ex, but it is not ok to dwell on that. Dwelling on that not only keeps you from moving forward, it keeps you in a state of depression. You don’t get anything by self sabotaging yourself. Your ex is not going to come back out of pity. The universe isn’t going to take pity on you and bring them back either. You have to find a way to pull yourself up by your bootstraps and find a way to keep on the path to closure.

Almost everyone on earth has gone through a breakup, and some are worse than others. You can survive it, just like everyone else has. It takes time, and it is painful, but you deserve another chance at happiness, and you will find it, with someone new, or your ex if they come back. It may seem like an impossible task, and you may feel your life is meaningless without your ex. You have to stay strong, and you have to take it day by day.

You may believe your ex will never return, but you don’t know for sure. Don’t put yourself through all of that if you don’t need to. No one should hold on to false hope, but unless you know for sure, don’t just assume. Your ex may miss you as much as you miss him. They may have other reasons, rather than not just wanting to get back with you, for not coming back right away. Give them the time they need to work on themselves, and use that time to work on yourself. He may come back with a greater sense of clarity about his feelings for you and the future of your relationship.

There are millions of couples that have broken up and gotten back together. Not all of them got back together right away either. Time is not necessarily a factor in determining if a couple will try again. So remember, when you find yourself missing him, he may also be missing you too.

Will He Try to Win You Back?

  • Posted on April 1, 2016 at 3:57 am
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Will he try to win you back? You didn’t want to have to end your relationship, but the time had come. You couldn’t take it anymore, and called the relationship off. Now you can’t help but wonder if they will try to win you back. You don’t want the relationship…

Your Soul Mate’s Ex-Girlfriend

  • Posted on September 5, 2015 at 5:39 pm
Your Soul Mate's Ex-Girlfriend

A soul mate’s ex-girlfriend can be quite the problem, despite the fact that she is an ex. When you are in a relationship with a soul mate who is a runner, who do you think they run to? When a soul mate is a runner, in many cases they run…

Is Your Ex-Boyfriend Ruining Your Relationship?

  • Posted on August 5, 2015 at 12:00 pm
Is Your Ex-Boyfriend Ruining Your Relationship?

What do you do when you seem to have the perfect relationship but an ex-boyfriend keeps causing as many problems as he can think of? What do you do if you have moved on from your ex-boyfriend, but he refuses to move on from you? What should you do if…

Heartbroken Over My Ex

  • Posted on July 27, 2015 at 9:00 am

I’m heartbroken over my ex and can’t stop thinking about him/her. How can I get my ex out of my head? My ex is seeing someone else, and I am heartbroken. How can I move forward like my ex has? I am heartbroken over my ex who recently got married.…

Tired of Being Second Choice? Stop Being Second Choice

  • Posted on October 20, 2012 at 11:08 am
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Tired of Being His Second Choice?

Second choice is a position no one aspires to. We all want to be first choice, not second choice. Have you put the one you love as number one in your life, but are lucky if they even put you as second? Do always feel you are low man on the totem pole and wish you could be top priority for once? A psychic love reading can help you address why you are second fiddle to the other people in your loved one’s life. What makes them so important and you so unimportant? Why do they come first and not you? Relationship psychics can see why you are not priority with your boyfriend or husband.

It could be that you are not important enough to them for whatever reason. You need to find out what that reason is for them keeping you as second choice and a psychic love reading with a relationship psychic will definitely help you.  A relationship psychic can reveal if you will ever be top priority, or if you will always be second choice. A psychic love reading will reveal if they just take you for granted, but really do love you most of all. If there is a way to get the one you love to make you a first choice instead of second, third, or fourth choice, a psychic love reading will reveal what you can do to make that happen.

Is an ex getting in the way of you being first choice? Are you the women in his life yet she is the one who always gets her way? The best relationship psychics will be able to see if his (or her) ex is always going to be first or if you can get the top spot. You may worry if he still cares about his ex and has feelings for her, because you cannot understand why you are always second choice.

Sophia Elise and Lady Sarah are the best relationship psychics on the internet. They will read into your relationship and tell you if he is still not over his ex. If he is over his ex, they will be able to explain why she still has so much more power and a higher priority that you do. Relationship psychics will be able to tell you how you can shift the power from her to you and knock her down a few pegs. You may have tried it before and it did not work, but Sarah and Sophia will tell you HOW to change it, so she can become the second choice.

We are proud when the one we love is a good parent. But what if the kids are getting top priority while you are overlooked? The one you love can be a good parent and yes children should come first, but adults should have some special time that is all about them. His or her ex may want them to babysit at the drop of a hat and screw up your plans so they can go have a good time. Emergencies are one thing, free babysitting is another. Perhaps he is ex is using the children to screw up your relationship, and you can discover that with a psychic love reading. It is not the kids fault of course, and the situation has to be handled appropriately. The best relationship psychics will tell you the best (and worst) way to handle it before it further damages your relationship. Relationship psychics can help you become a much higher priority in your love relationship.

Love and relationships are quite tricky, and each relationship is different.  If the one you love is married, you may wonder when you will be number one instead of the husband or wife. It is very difficult to keep taking back seat to the wife or feeling you are second choice all the time. A consultation with a relationship psychic will reveal if you will ever be number one in this relationship.

Stop being second choice! It is time to put yourself first and the first step for that is a psychic love reading with the best love psychics on the internet, Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise.

Will We Get Back Together?

  • Posted on October 16, 2012 at 5:54 pm
getting back together

“Will we get back together” is right up there with the top two questions we are asked. A psychic relationship reading really is the best way to find out what will come of your break up, and if you will get back together. You may both move on to new relationships…