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Love and Destiny

  • Posted on June 12, 2015 at 4:59 pm
Love and Destiny

Destiny can play a part in meeting someone we come to love.¬†Without the intervention of destiny, we may never meet someone who becomes an important part of our lives.¬†The timing of that meeting, where it was and when and how it happened, makes us actually believe in destiny. Otherwise, that…

Is Your Relationship Destined to Last?

  • Posted on October 26, 2014 at 11:55 am
is your relationship destined to last

Is Your Relationship Destined to Last?

Is your relationship destined to last? Do you feel that your relationship is destined to work out against all odds? Destiny may play a part in your relationship with the one you love. Destiny can’t be held responsible for the longevity of your relationship though.

If the two of you keep making mistake after mistake, destiny is going to find another couple to help out. The mistakes you two keep making (and repeating) could make your relationship destined NEVER to work out. We play a role in our destiny. Destiny is not our get out of jail free card. You two may have been destined to meet one another, but once you did, you play a role in the destiny of your relationship. Destiny can often bring us the opportunity to have a relationship, but destiny is not in control of how we behave in the relationship. Destiny is not responsible for our mistakes.

Destiny does not prevent our making mistakes in relationships either. Our free will comes into play more often than destiny. Do not give destiny the credit for having the power to keep you together. That power lies with the two of you for the most part.

It could be that your relationship is destined to fail, and that you are with the wrong person. Just because your relationship has survived doesn’t mean it should have. Sometimes destiny steps in to show us just how dysfunctional our relationships really are. For instance, you may have been destined to find out the one you love has been cheating on you. Is that so you can overcome infidelity, or because you are not destined to be together in the first place?
Destiny can assist us with obtaining the things we want most in life. Destiny can also give us a hand and help us let go of the things that although we want them, we need to let go of them. All things in our lives are not pre destined. We make our daily choices, decision and make our mistakes which set the direction our lives move in. Destiny may throw things off course, but we must look at destiny with open eyes and an open mind. We cannot always think destiny will give us everything and everyone that we want in our lives. Sometimes destiny does us a favor by forcing us to face things we do not want to see.

Is your relationship destined to last or destined to fail? All relationships can’t be destined to last. But is yours? Why not get a psychic reading and find out what the future has in store for your relationship?

Don’t Leave it All Up to Destiny

  • Posted on October 8, 2014 at 4:25 pm

Destiny and fate often go hand in hand in peoples minds.

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Don’t Leave it All Up to Destiny

When we find ourselves meeting someone significant to us in a bizarre way, we may chalk it up to destiny doing it’s job. But how much of our relationship should be left to destiny? Not much.

You may not be able to control how or when you meet people you eventually love, but how long they stay in your life is more in your hands than in the hands of fate. If you think that just because you were destined to meet someone that destiny is responsible for keeping you together forever, you are mistaken. Destiny gives you a chance. A chance at love, a career opportunity, or can change the path you were on. Where you go from there is on you, not just on destiny.

So let’s say you met someone you feel you were destined to meet because of the amazing bond and chemistry you share. Congratulations. Good for you. But remember, that is step one. Destiny will take a back seat and give the two of you a chance to screw it up or treasure it. It is up to the two of you to take the gift that destiny has bestowed upon you and do with it what you will. Just because destiny helped you out once, doesn’t mean it will always be there as your relationship repair kit. If either of you lie, cheat, or behave in any way that disrespects the relationship, destiny will not bail you out. Destiny is not responsible for bad choices or habits or behaviors the two of you allowed to become a part of your relationship. YOU created that, YOU fix it.

Destiny has other things to do. Destiny may step in here and there, but the heavy lifting is really up to the couple. You cannot expect destiny to create major changes in your relationship. Destiny did not create the problem, whoever did is responsible for turning things around. If you or your partner has done a lot of damage to the foundation of your relationship, it is time to take control. A dysfunctional relationship will only get more dysfunctional with time. Problems in relationships should not be ignored, they should be dealt with maturely. Don’t rely on destiny to bail you out.

Destiny gives us opportunities. Some can be positive, some negative. But we must work together with destiny and our free will to take those opportunities and create positive out of them. Look at your relationship and see what you can do, no matter how big or small that can create positive changes right now. Begin using your own power guide your relationship down a better path instead of waiting for destiny to take the wheel.